caring for someone

if you care for someone, you would want what's best for them. if you care for someone, you will feel genuine concern for what she is doing especially if this would lead to them being hurt.

if you care for someone, you will feel responsible if you do not atleast talk to her about your concerns about her and what she is doing.

but what can you do, if that someone you care for doesn't seem to mind getting herself in the position that might cause her pain?

what can you do if that someone does what she does seemingly because she is happy doing it, without actually looking to the repercussions of her actions?

what can you do if that someone wouldn't really care for your concerns as long as she is happy doing what she is doing?

so i will do nothing... nothing but to wish and hope that whatever she is doing will eventually result into happiness for her, even if that seems bleak now.

nobody wants to be saved if she feels she doesn't need saving. so who are we to intrude?