venting

again, let me say this:

there is a difference between a girl flirting with a guy, and a guy who entertains a girl who flirts with him.

it is a huge difference. the first is receptive in nature, the other is interactive.

it all the more is significant when the guy in question is committed to someone else. should this be the case, the first instance is OK (per se), while the other is taboo (i know, im a guy so what i should be saying is this is just ok).

the first instance precludes wrongful actions done by the girl, the second instance indicates wrongful actions done by both.

so if someone is neither the guy or the girl in both scenarios (and certainly not the girl the guy is committed to), if that someone is a person outside-looking-in, someone who may have a vested interest in either the guy or the girl; then he/she should open his/her eyes as wide as possible, understand that this is happening, and then accept the fact that the boy and the girl on the second scenario are not worth all the attention.

he/she should say to himself/herself that "i deserve someone better" and move on.

if someone couldn't say that nor have the courage to follow the things needed to move on.... then maybe he/she is also like the guy or the girl in the second scenario... someone that is not worth all the attention.